There is a general misunderstanding that you are supposed to know how to do everything on your own. This is an especially pervasive belief among helpers and healers.
Helpers and healers are notoriously bad about being able to receive. Giving – they’re all over that. Nurturing – no one better. But being able to ask for help, let alone accept a kindness – that’s a challenge.
Maybe it would help to know that by asking for help you are almost certain to learn a something new and that will help your clients. You expand your knowledge base when you ask for help. You build community. You allow yourself to feel uplifted and energized – and that’s good for everyone in your life.
A strong sense of community emerges and we’re starting to see how collaborative friendships (doesn’t this sound better than strategic alliances?) help everyone.
When you’re uncertain of your next step, consider reaching out to your community to ask for feedback, advice, ideas and suggestions. Consider asking for help. If you’re a helper or healer you may be shocked at the overwhelming response you get after years of uplifting others.
Let me know how it works out!
This post is a great reminder to seek the balance of receiving and giving.
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